YES

NO

It’s just not true.

If the trust is reciprocal, than you don’t need to talk every day. Sometimes people are busy. lives happen. Jobs happen. People happen. It’s harmful to friendships and relationships alike to uphold this sort of paradigm; if they care about you they will still care about you no matter how busy they are. And if you trust them you’ll know that they still care even if they can’t squeeze out some time for you. 

ALSO “I was too tired” isn’t just an excuse for everybody. I hate when people don’t get it. If we were supposed to meet and i cancel because i was too tired, it really means that i was too fucking tired.